10 Signs You Are Finally Ready For Love Again

What does that moment look like, the point when you know you are ready to love again?

Recovering from a break up is hard; it drains you emotionally, mentally and even physically. But it needs to be done for you to move on. It is an essential to-do for your well-being. It is essential for life to go on, so that one day you are ready to love again, open your heart and soul to someone else, and eventually find the happiness that you were searching for with someone else.

But when does that point come? How do you know that you are ready for that step? What does that point look like, when you know you are ready to love again?

Well, here are some things to size up to help you decide if whether it is time for you to get in the game again.

1. You have spent enough time by yourself, enough to not need anyone to complete you. You have spent enough time by yourself to know how and in what way you complete yourself.

2. You don't think about your ex or the memories you both made together with a wistful longing, or sadness over what could have been. Everything doesn't remind you of them.

3. You are okay with being alone for a while...and you aren't consciously looking for someone (a rebound) to fill the void that your last relationship has left you with.

4. You are excited about the prospect of meeting new people and the amazing possibilities that lie ahead of you. There is clarity on the past where you know that you and your ex couldn't have worked out after all.

5. You have learned what you your last relationship were supposed to teach you.

6. Your happiness doesn't depend on what your ex is doing or how much they has moved on in his life. Your happiness doesn't depend on them at all.

7. You are emotionally available, ready to take the leap of faith, not pulled down by fears that your break up left you in, and willing to give someone a fair chance.

8. You know exactly what you want from a relationship and what it is that you are looking for. And if this time it doesn't work out, you will be able to be mindful of why it wasn't for you.

9. You don't set your ex or that relationship has a scale for the experiences you will share with someone now.

10. You have actively worked on yourself and towards building yourself to be the best version of yourself. You love yourself first, and love yourself enough.

8 Things To Never Do After A Break Up

Sometimes, more often than we know in fact, we tend to make break ups harder for ourselves than they are

Breakups are hard, that much is a fact that more than half of this generation can vouch for. If finding someone worth investing all that time and effort in is not hard enough, the disappointment and pain of a failed relationship makes the whole experience even worse...and in effect, makes us more jaded as people.

But sometimes, more often than we know in fact, we tend to make break ups harder for ourselves than they are. In the whirlwind of emotions, feelings, tears, and fears...we do things which don't make for healthy choices.

These are the few things we should really stop doing post a break up.

1. Keep talking to them

One of the hardest things to do is to cut contact. I mean, this person has been an integral part of your daily life for so long, multiples calls through the day, texts, sharing everything....and now there will be a void where all that once was. But whatever you may tell yourself, going cold turkey and cutting contact is necessary for you to start the healing process.

2. Stalk them on social media platforms

When we do that, we are still anchoring our life to theirs; our mood depends on what we discover about them, where they are, what they are doing, whether they are already moving on, the likes. What we need to do is not have our life depend on what THEY are up to.

3. Run away from the grieving process

Don't pretend to be fine when you aren't, it is okay to feel sad, hurt, angry, and you need to acknowledge those emotions first so that you can eventually get them out of your system by grieving those emotions. Grieving is essential, lest the unaddressed pain festers.

4. Try to be friends right after

That just doesn't work you know. Really. There is so much that needs to be addressed that you two will never be able to draw the line between friendship and what you shared. You may just end up fighting and making everything worse. The very rare circumstance that actually works in is if you two were never that invested in each other anyway.

5. Do not have sex with each other

Just. Don't. Do. It. It will only mess your head up, and make you wonder things you shouldn't be thinking. Clean break please.

6. Try to get back together

In simple words, you should not be with someone who you have to ask to be with you. You should not be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. It is hard to let go of all the happy memories, and second guessing the reasons why you broke up in the first place.

7. Wallowing in your pain

Yes, you need to grieve. You must. You absolutely have to. But then don't make it worse for yourself by continually listening to sad songs, eating through the heartache, and prolonging the pain.

8. Give up on love

You may not be ready to date for a while, you will also probably lose your faith in the idea of love. And that's okay. But know that eventually, this too shall pass. And when that time comes, keep the doors and your heart wide open.

3 Things Every Woman Should Do After Sex

Here are a few things every woman should try and do after sex

There are a bunch of things we do before sex to make the experience a good one. What we often forget is that it's also what we do after that can actually save us from a lot of unpleasantness. Here are a few things every woman should try and do after sex.

1. Go Pee

Seriously. You've probably heard this one many times before, but hear it again because it's important. While it may seem like a task to get out of bed and take that short walk to the loo post sex, it could save you from a lot of pain. Bacteria are everywhere. Penetration during intercourse allows for these bacteria to get closer to the urethra. Women have a shorter urethra as compared to men, which makes it easier for bacteria to travel to the bladder. This makes women more susceptible to UTIs. Peeing after sex helps flush some of these bacteria out of the urethra and reduces the risk of a UTI. Come on, you can go back to cuddling after peeing - it only takes a minute.

2. Hydrate Yourself

Sex is a workout. No matter what position you're trying, you are putting in physical effort. Not drinking enough water after vigorous activity could dehydrate your body. So it's as important for you to hydrate yourself post sex as it is after a session at the gym. Plus, it'll also help you pass urine quickly and flush out some of that UTI causing bacteria.

3. Keep It Clean

Using a soap down there that is scented is not such a good idea, but using a fragrance-free soap can prove helpful. Clean the area around your vagina post sex to help get rid of infection causing bacteria. All you have to do is take a soft, clean cloth with some soap and water and gently clean the area, using front to back motion. Internal cleaning is not necessary as the vagina has its own cleaning mechanism. Make sure that you thoroughly clean the area that is easily visible to you, though.

Dinesh Karthik’s splendid last ball six went amiss for skipper Rohit Sharma, here’s why

Rohit Sharma said that he had missed Dinesh Karthik’s last ball six as he was getting ready for the Super Over. “I had walked back in the dressing room to wear my pads,” he said in a press conference after a thriller of a match between India and Bangladesh. India needed five runs to win off the last ball of the match and wicketkeeper Dinesh Karthik hit a six over extra cover to finish the job in emphatic fashion. This also helped India win the Nidahas Trophy. Rohit Sharma, who was captain of the Indian team in the tri-series involving his side, Bangladesh and hosts Sri Lanka, said that he was hoping the match would go into a Super Over.

“Very happy to see Dinesh doing what he did, he didn’t get much game time until now, but he showed his power,” said Rohit in the post-match presentation. “We held him back because of his finishing ability and his experience. And it paid off. I always had a lot of faith in our batting group and we were confident after keeping them to a par score,” he said.

“Brilliant game, brilliant for the crowd who have come out in numbers. The support we got here from this crowd was brilliant, it would be a bit different if we were playing Sri Lanka but I would like to thank them for their show tonight,” he said.

India had rested limited overs regulars like Virat Kohli, MS Dhoni, Kuldeep Yadav and Hardik Pandya in the series. Rohit Sharma, who himself scored 56 off 42 balls in the final, lauded the performance of the youngsters who took their places. “Great tournament for us. Young lads. Lot of learning. We always knew they had the talent, but it was about executing and this tournament will give them a lot of confidence. Everybody who played, they showed lots of character. These games are not easy and these guys have not played a lot for the national team. And this performance will give them a lot of confidence.”

Washington Sundar was the man of the series for his return of eight wickets for 114 runs in the 20 overs he had bowled. Rohit said that it was easy to lead this group of players and that they executed the plans perfectly. “It was quite easy to lead them. A lot of work has been done of the field in terms of strategy so it was very easy for me to remind them what we spoke of in our meeting and I thought they just executed them perfectly, in the Powerplay, middle overs and the death. Some of them went for runs, but they will learn from it and today was a real platform to show what we could do.”

Karthik walked into bat when Bangladesh were on top and India needed a special effort from the experienced batsman. He certainly delivered, scoring 29 off just 8 balls which included three sixes and two boundaries.

Set a target of 167 for victory, India lost in-form Shikhar Dhawan (10) and Suresh Raina (0) early in the chase.But Rohit and KL Rahul then got together to stitch a 51-run partnership, looking fluent and finding boundaries at ease.
Rohit was at his best, clearing the rope at will and also finding the middle off the bat. Bangladesh got back into the game after both these batsmen were dismissed in quick succession.

Manish Pandey and Vijay Shankar failed to find that big over which would settle the game, allowing Bangladesh to fight back. India needed 35 off the final 3 overs, when Mustafizur bowled arguably the over of the tournament. He conceded just 1 run and picked the wicket of Manish Pandey. However, Karthik walked in to change the game completely. 5 were required off the final ball, and Soumya Sarkar was the unlucky bowler who conceded a maximum off the final delivery.
         Earlier, put into bat, Sabbir Rahman scored a fine 77 to help Bangladesh reach 166/8 in their allotted 20 overs.The total looked below par as the Indian spinners led by Yuzvendra Chahal strangulated the Bangladeshi batsmen.Tamim Iqbal was dismissed early in the piece, with Shardul Thakur pulling off a sensational catch on the boundary line. Experienced Mushfiqur (9) and Shakib (7) couldn't contribute much either.

Sabbir played a lone hand, supported by cameos from Mahmudullah (21) and Mehidy Hassan (19).Chahal picked up 3/18 in his 4 overs while Washington Sundar - who was also named the man-of-the-series - ended with figures of 1/20. Unadkat too picked up 2 wickets, giving away 33 runs. Vijay Shankar had a day to forget as he conceded 48 runs off his 4 overs.

life hacks for girls 2018

What are some life hacks that every girl should know about?

1. We all know romantic/adult/ private things happens when two people get into a relationship but don’t let anyone take advantage of it.

• Girls please think thrice before sending your boyfriend a nude pic or video of yourself. Every girl in a relationship say that they trust their boyfriends with it but if it was so then no mms/pic/video would have gone viral on internet. As they say “if women can fake a smile, men can fake a whole relationship”. You can’t know someone’s intentions so be careful.

• Wives please don’t allow your husbands to record your private intimate moments (at-least which you are aware of) unless you want millions of others to see that video because the moment you allow something like this to happen you sledgehammers your feet yourself.

• Some of the females click pictures of their bodies not with the intention of sending it to anyone but just to see how sexy they look in those poses. In that case don’t give out your mobile phones, laptop etc to repair because even if you have deleted those pictures there are plenty of free softwares available online which can recover almost anything from a single text file to images and videos as well.

• As not all females are avatar of Sita, not all males are ill intended. Some truly love their partners and care for them. Generally they are sane enough not to indulge in these activities but sometimes they store such things on their devices and data get leaked out without their knowledge.

There is a common fad among teenage boys to share their intimate videos, pictures, recorded phone calls of their girlfriends with other male friends. Why they do so

i.)  Because they are not in love with their partner, they think its fun and the least they don’t care about what happen to the girl because of this act.

ii.)   They share it with their friends to show how long they can perform in bed.

iii.)  To show their friends how tempting she looks without clothes.

iv.)  Some save them for asking money in favour of not releasing that data on internet.

v.)  Some use it to blackmail the girl for having sex anywhere anytime they want.

vi.) Some sell those videos for a huge amount of money. There are number of porn websites where they can sell those videos & pictures and can get paid. Believe me your fake boyfriends earns more in a week than you earn in a month altogether.

Here i am not saying that every male is a wrongdoer and every girl is a saint. Most of them knows the difference between what is private and what is public. But still there is nothing wrong in being cautious than putting one’s life, relation, happiness and peace at stake. I just don’t want anyone to die.

2. Self-defense techniques

             In self-defense 
                 NO RULES

          If you're in danger ,in trouble,or in anyway  threatened,you do anything and everything you can to get away and get to safety. 

 3. Quick hassle free cooking.

       

                      

4. Fashion tricks ( such as how to use old stuff with new stuff , pairing in a clever manner and things like that. )

5.Bargaining, if you like street shopping! ;)

6. Things to carry in your bag when u step out, such as pepper spray, knife, pen, deo, key chain etc. This stuff can be useful for self defence. You can also keep stuff for quick make up fixes.

7.To learn to carefully analyse guys and not fall for every cute looking handsome man that comes in your way.

That is all I can think of as of now! :) Hope this helps! :)

10 Cool Things You Didn't Know About Stephen Hawking

    Without wasting your time i will start with some interesting facts

                         

1.  Hawking was born on Jan. 8, 1942, which just happened to be the 300th anniversary of Galileo's death.

2.  When he was 9 years old, his grades ranked among the worst in his class. With a little more effort, he brought those grades up to about average, but not much better.

   These days, we know Hawking as a brilliant mind whose theories are difficult for a nonscientific mind to grasp

3.  For all his interest in science, Stephen didn't care for biology. He has said that he found it to be "too inexact, too descriptive"

4.  At the St. Albans High School, he built a computer along with his group of friends and his Mathematics teacher Dikran Tahta from an old telephone switchboard, clock parts, and other recycled components.

5.  Stephen was very adventurous and witty in his youth and was a part of the rowing team at the University College, Oxford.

6.  When he was pursuing his Ph.D. at the Cambridge, he fell in love with Jane Wilde who was a friend of his sister.

7.  In 1963 at the age of 21, Stephen was diagnosed with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS), a motor neuron disease and doctors told him that he had only 2 years to live.

8.  His father, Frank, and mother, Isobel, both attended the University of Oxford. He had two younger sisters (Philippa & Mary) and one adopted brother, Edward. They often spent their meals silently reading a book.

9. When asked which was the most mysterious thing in the world, Hawking replied- its’s women!

10.  In the early hours of March 14, 2018, Stephen Hawking died peacefully at his home in Cambridge. It was coincident that on the day of his death, it was the 30th anniversary of Pi Day, a day for celebrating the mathematical constant pi.

We lost a great one today. Stephen Hawking will be remembered for his incredible contributions to science – making complex theories and concepts more accessible to the masses.

Why you like to watch porn??

   

 

 The many reasons people watch porn

…for those who don’t really watch porn.

Whether you’re just curious or you’ve just discovered that your significant other is into porn…but you’re not, here’s a rundown of the healthy and not-so-healthy reasons so many people watch porn.

Some people like pornography, and some don’t. Some people are porn connoisseurs and some are disgusted by it.

Some couples watch it together for inspiration and excitement, while some couples protest it publicly on the principle that it exploits and demeans women (and men in some cases).

The Good

In moderation, there are some healthy (and relatively healthy) reasons people watch porn. Let’s get the obvious assumptions out of the way first.

Immersive Masturbation

Porn is often “used” for sexual inspiration and to enhance masturbation. The visual stimulation of porn can excite viewers sexually because the viewer relates to (or can imagine) the pleasurable sensations that would result from the sexual experiences being portrayed in the video (or pictures).

 Not all porn viewing is actually porn “usage” Sometimes, people just want to watch.

Curiosity

Sometimes, especially in the case of amateur porn, people are just naturally curious and fascinated by what other people do for sexual enjoyment and what it looks like. 

People like having sex and like seeing other people doing it. Not everyone who watches porn actually uses porn as a masturbatory enhancement.

Variety

From music to food, people enjoy variety. Sex is no different. For many, pornography is a very simple way to enjoy a little taste of sexual variety without actually indulging.

Fantasy and Imagination

We tend to think of the word “fantasy” as “something we would love to do”, but sometimes a fantasy simply an entertaining thought—we’re content with a fantasy being a fantasy.

Movies and TV series about zombies, for example, can be extremely entertaining and even exhilarating—causing our heart rate to go up as we watch our protagonists fight for survival, or compelling us to yell out when someone opens a door in a dark room

Like zombies and space invaders, sometimes porn is just an entertaining fantasy or curious thought, and nothing more.Like zombies and space invaders, sometimes porn is just an entertaining fantasy or curious thought, and nothing more.

Secondary or Minor Interests

This is very similar to the motivation of fantasy and imagination, except that the interest is more than fleeting.

I love everything else we do together.” Your partner may very well be expressing complete honesty—his or her main turn-on is just regular text-book sex with you. 

It’s okay to take it at face value if your partner seems content to just let something like that be a porn thing.

For Inspiration

Sometimes porn can play a very healthy role in a sexual relationship, whether watched together by couples or viewed individually.

 people inspire partners to initiate sex with one another simply because a bit of porn put them in the mood.

The Not So Good

In the interest of being sex-positive, we wanted to lead with some of the healthy and relatively benign reasons why many people watch porn. But, there are also some misuses of porn as well.

As Education

Unfortunately, especially in situations where young people aren’t exposed to adequate sex education or healthy adult guidance on sex and sexuality, many young people turn to porn to learn about sex.

In Lieu of Real Sex

You’ll know this is the case if it’s happening between you and your partner if the two of you are not having sex but your partner is watching a lot of porn. Sometimes people find it easier to use porn as a sexual outlet rather than face conflict or risk rejection

Addiction

And finally, some people do become addicted to pornography. According to a recent Cambridge study, porn addiction can trigger the same brain activity as drug addiction. (Though, researchers also said that this does not necessarily mean that porn itself is addictive.)

The differences between “normal” porn usage and porn addiction aren’t that dissimilar to the differences between moderate social drinking and alcoholism.

bollywood celebs who got married outside India

We all are obsessed with weddings and a celebrity wedding is something that invites the highest attention.

From Virat Kohli and Anushka Sharma to Rani Mukerji and Aditya Chopra, the B-town couples dodged the paparazzi to flock away overseas to get hitched in private. Know all about such hush-hush celebrity weddings abroad.

                               1. Anushka Sharma and Viraat Kohli

Anushka Sharma and Virat Kohli were another couples who left the media and their fans pleasantly surprised when the news of their secret wedding on December 11, 2017 broke the internet.

According to the reports, Anushka considers Aditya Chopra her mentor and it was him who suggested her to go for an abroad wedding in order to avoid the media attention. 

2. Preity Zinta and gene Goodenough

Preity Zinta gave a very pleasant surprise to her fans as she confirmed the news of her secret marriage with US-based Gene Goodenough by introducing him on the social media with an additional caption,

                                              “Let the Goodenough jokes begin.’

The diva got married with Gene in an intimate wedding ceremony in Los Angeles in March, 2016 and their wedding portrait is proof enough, it was the wedding of her dreams. 

                                       3. Surveen Chawla and Akshay Thakker

‘Parched’ actress Surveen Chawla got married in a Christian wedding with the love of her life Akshay Thakker and their wedding pictures were every bit breathtaking.

Decked up in a white off-shoulder gown, Surveen was joined in by Akshay for her dream wedding at a chapel in Northern Italy

. According to reports, the two allegedly met in 2013 and tied the knot in a private wedding ceremony in 2015 but waited for the right time to announce the news.

                                       4. Mohit Marwah and Antara Motiwala
                                  

It was a true-blue Punjabi destination wedding for actor Mohit Marwah and his ladylove Antara Motiwala

The couple decked up in their wedding finery and hot hitched in complete multiple-day ceremonies with their near and dear ones flying down from India to join them in full attendance.

 While uncle Anil Kapoor danced his heart out at their sangeet as well as the baaraat, cousin Arjun Kapoor too couldn’t keep his calm for his veere-di-wedding and was spotted in high spirits along with cousins Sonam Kapoor who was there with siblings Rhea and Harshvardhan.

                                    5. Aftab Shivdasani and Nin Dusanj 

Aftab Shivdasani and Nin Dusanj have been making public appearances together for a very long time.

 The two visited Sri Lanka and fell in love with the place so much that they decided to tie the knot there.

They later revealed that they had a registered marriage on June 5, 2014 already but a ceremony had not taken place.

The couple got married at a resort in Tangalle on the South Eastern coast of Sri Lanka.

6. Rani Mukerji and Aditya Chopra 

Rani Mukerji and Aditya Chopra shocked the world when the news of their secret wedding in Italy reached the media.

The actress was dating the filmmaker for quite a few years and with Adi being a highly private person, this invited mixed reactions.

According to the reports, the actress wore a Sabyasachi attire on her big day on April 21, 2015 at a countryside location in Italy.

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